Dave of Guy

About Me

Hey, I'm @stridercestous on twitter. I like a lot of messed up stuff. You can call me "Beetle", but don't be surprised if you see people calling me by other names. I enjoy collecting them. B)
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I'm afab, genderfluid and transmasculine. I prefer either gender neutral titles or masculine-leaning titles, and I use he/him and fae/faer pronouns. I am gray-asexual panromantic and polyamorous. Doll (@elusiveBeatdown) and I are planning to be married, and I'm currently dating Felix (@Ov3rAnd0ut) as well.
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I write mostly NSFW content and use words like "horny"/"kinky"/etc. for effect or because sometimes it's easier to communicate my feelings this way, but I'm not a very sexual person irl. Implying that I'm being overly sexual- especially if we're not close- can sometimes make me uncomfortable.
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I have OCD (diagnosed ~5/6 years ago). If you think I'm being "weird" or stubborn about something unimportant, or if my thought process seems, for lack of a better term, illogical, that's probably why. I try not to effect others or be difficult, but sometimes it is unavoidable.
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Being disgusted by something doesn't make it wrong. I don't believe people with unwanted desires should be punished for their thoughts.

Messaging Me

As long as you're not underage or an asshole feel free to message me about anything, especially if you think we have a shared interest! I even have a curiouscat here: https://curiouscat.me/stridercestous
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I run a Stridercest discord server! If you're interested in joining, shoot me a message!
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I believe strongly in always striving to improve oneself. If I've hurt your feelings or if you feel I've said or done something genuinely bad/hurtful, please let me know right away. I will not respond badly as long as you're not telling me that I shouldn't be drawing or writing about certain subjects. (Asking me to treat a topic I don't know about more delicately or pointing out outdated language is fine. Telling me omegaverse is transphobic or that my pencil drawings of a fictional character is child pornography is not.)

Ships/Kinks/Things I Like

At least everything I can think of! Always feel free to talk about these things with me.
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Ships: Dave/BroDirk, Dave/Dirk, BroDave/Dirk, John/Vriska, Gamzee/Tavros, Gamzee/Equius, Cronus/Eridan, Cronus/Kankri, John/Dave, John/Karkat, Dirk/Rose, every strilonde combination, you can probably get me to ship anything lbr
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Kinks: codependency, incest, abuse, abo heats/ruts, dubcon, noncon, humiliation, breaking taboos, vore (hardvore/cannibalism and softvore, almost always prefer fatal), tentadicks/tentabulges, lbr tentacles in general, hypnosis, mindbreak, bestiality (anthro and realistic), size difference
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Not Sexual For Me But I Like It: maternal characters, pregnancy, healthy polyamory, abo communal nesting, abo social dynamics, soulmate AUs, monosexual characters dating genders they're not romantically or sexually attracted to

Things I Don't Like

I don't care to police what people post on their own twitter accounts. However, if we're talking in private, it'd be nice if you avoided the topics or at least didn't expect me to be super into them!
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Ships: Dirk/Jake (including Bro/Grandpa), Roxy/Calliope
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Other Content: alchoholism, camming / cam AUs, drunkenness (drugging ok), characters being crushed to death, unwarned for deadnaming/transphobia (can handle it fine if I'm warned), June Egbert / transfem John, transmasc Roxy, Dave getting cucked
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I love getting recommendations for new stuff to read or get into. HOWEVER, PLEASE DO NOT RECOMMEND ME SHOWS, FANFIC, COMICS, OR ANY SERIES THAT IS UNFINISHED.

My Longass Dave Disclaimer

I project a lot onto Dave Strider. I am not offended when another interpretation disagrees with my own, but I politely request that you give me some respect in return and consider that there's a reason I write what I do. If you dislike something I've drawn or written, please don't be rude about it.
I talk about and draw pregnant Dave quite a bit, as both a transman in human verses and as an omega in omegaverse(s). I used to warn for mpreg art of him because some people expressed discomfort with it. However, I no longer do so, as the idea that I need to "protect" people from seeing a body that looks like/ will look like my own was really disturbing to me.
Similarly, omegaverse has always been a freeing setting for me as a trans person. I love that gender as we know it is secondary to abo genders, that your pronouns and preferred titles go unquestioned, and that nobody needs to "come out". Hopefully it's understandable that if you don't like omegaverse, saying that you don't like it for trans-related reasons can be upsetting and come off as patronizing.
Please keep in mind that when you tell me that the way I portray Dave makes you uncomfortable, it can very easily come off as you saying that I'm wrong, because it's all directly taken from my own life.
Everyone is allowed to have boundries or things that make you uncomfortable! I've just had a lot of people express their discomfort in ways that make me feel invalid, for lack of a less charged term. I request that if you're made uncomfortable, please be polite about it, and keep in mind that I am an imperfect fan with fucky feelings projecting onto a fictional character.